Guides, Angels, and Lost Loved Ones That Can Assist You on Your Twin Flame / Spiritual Journey
- Jessica Mendes

- Jun 25
- 9 min read
As we awaken spiritually, we realize there’s a greater force helping us on the other side. Being on the Twin Flame journey for about two years and on some form of spiritual path for most of my life, I can say for certain, there are guides that assist us with many different things.
One thing I’ve noticed upon my channeled messages and energy readings I’ve been doing lately, is that a big message I receive from the guides tends to end with “You need to call on us more. Call on your guides. We WANT to help you.” Our angels and guides are always there to assist us, but we have to call on them, and trust me when we do, they listen and are there for us in unimaginable ways.
Personally, I feel calling on God is the direct way to source and guidance. However, there are angels and guides for a reason to assist and they do watch over us at all times. There are many different guides that can help us on specific things such as communication, protection, spiritual gifts, healing, etc. I will describe the ones I call upon the most below.
We also have loved ones who have passed away that we can call on to help us, and believe it or not, if you’re on the Twin Flame journey, there’s usually at least one lost loved one that is meant to help you connect with your Twin Flame and bring you into union.
FAMILY MEMBERS AS GUIDES
I’ve had several clients who’s parent(s) or close family members passed away shortly before being spiritually activated by their Twin Flame. You might think reading this that maybe their family member’s passing is what activated them spiritually. Ironically, many of my clients have told me that their Dark Night of the Soul (DNOTS) due to their Twin Flame running was harder on them than the loss of their loved one passing. That’s how intense and brutal this journey can feel.
While no one wants to hear their loved one passed away so they could help from the other side, sadly it does happen. Their purpose may be to assist you in ways they couldn’t help you in the physical world, but in the spirit world.
In my case, I actually discovered that my Twin Flame’s grandfather whom I’ve never met nor spoke about with my Twin Flame, is helping guide us to union, and he came to me during my DNOTS. I know that can sound a bit weird and you may wonder how I know for sure, so allow me to explain.
The night I flew home from California in September 2022 while going through the worst of my DNOTS, I had this vivid beautiful dream of my Twin Flame proudly showing me a memorial with a rifle engraved on top of it on his front lawn and he told me it was to honor his grandfather. Meanwhile, I saw his grandfather’s spirit standing on the side surrounded by bright white light and I could feel my Twin Flame’s warm energy around me as he hugged me in the dream, before even knowing we were Twin Flames. I had never experienced someone’s presence feel so real in a dream nor seen a spirit in a dream like that before.
A year later, I had an akashic record reading and I wanted to know about that vivid dream that I can still remember till this day as if I just woke up and had it. I asked the reader if there was any significance to seeing his grandfather in my dream. She told me he blocked us from coming into union in a past life, so he wants to guide us into union in this lifetime due to feeling guilty and knowing that I’m “his grandson’s salvation”. Suddenly I started to feel these tingles on my shoulders, but I didn’t say anything as to not interrupt her channeling. She then proceeded to say, “he wants me to tell you he’s touching your shoulders and kissing the top of your head.” I started sobbing, because that was the first time I ever felt anything like it and it confirmed exactly what I was feeling without me saying a single word. I knew right then and there he really is a guide for us. She told me he wants to help us as long as I consent to it and I happily said “YES! OF COURSE!”
The funny thing is as I’m writing this, I keep having spurts of tears and only when I’m writing about his grandfather, but not about anything else. I feel completely neutral and non-emotional about this, yet it’s causing me to cry. I asked his spirit just now if there was something he needed to tell me as the emotions were coming on strong while writing this. He said to not forget his boy (perhaps because I’ve been feeling detached) and that he loves me and he’s coming soon.
When it comes to family members being a guide for you, you’ll usually know by dreams, signs of their name, their scent, or anything significant to you. You’ll just have an inner knowing it’s them and you can call on them whenever you’d like them to comfort you.
ARCHANGELS & ASCENDED MASTERS
On the Twin Flame Journey, there are many Twin Flame ascended masters and they can each help us when calling on them, but if you call on them for specific things, I feel it helps even more. Of course, take what resonates and call on whomever you feel more strongly drawn to.
Below are some of the ones I call upon the most and use in my meditations for assistance:
Archangel Michael — He is the most “popular” or known Archangel and his Twin Flame is Lady Faith. He’s known as the mightiest protector who took down the Devil in a battle which is why you might see sculptures of Archangel Michael with his sword and the head of the devil or a demon. He’s here to protect everyone, not just Twin Flames, but you can call on him to protect you and your twin flame just by simply saying something such as, “Archangel Michael, please surround my Twin Flame and I with protection and shield us from any negativity.” You can also call on him to cut karmic ties by asking him to use his mighty sword to cut energetic cords between you and a person and visualizing that being done. I will write about karmic cords in a separate article.
He’s known as the protector of policemen and can often be seen as a blue light or orb. I always call on him before I drive, when I feel scared, and when I start a meditation to surround me and everyone in the meditation with a faraday cage to protect us from dark entities or low vibrational energies.
Lord Metatron — Metatron is one of the highest of angels, if not, the highest, and brings an extra force of guidance for Twin Flames, but unfortunately, he’s not as popular to Christians for example, but he’s known as the prophet Enoch in the Bible.
Most of what I say in my content about Twin Flames has been channeled from Lord Metatron, or so I’ve been told by a beautifully gifted follower of mine. He wants me to guide Twin Flames to union by focusing on unconditional love and maintaining the child like essence within us. Normally I wouldn’t believe just anything someone says like that, but I felt the rush of God’s presence flow through me with heat making me cry and fall to my knees when I read her words. I now call on him more and do hear his messages clearly.
You may have heard of Metatron’s cube or the Merkaba. He speaks through geometry and tools and wants to assist people on their spiritual path opening their gifts. If you want to open your third eye and enhance your spiritual gifts, call on Lord Metatron and ask him to assist you. Metatron is of the colors gold & violet so you may see him in orbs or sparkles of light in those colors.
St. Germain — St. Germain is known for his violet flame of fire to transmute all negative energies and his Twin Flame is Lady Portia, Goddess of Justice. St. Germain is known to have lived many lives and in one of the last ones, he lived as a European alchemist from the 1700s. The violet flame of fire is a high vibrational frequency that alchemizes and transmutes negative energies such as fear and doubt into love and joy. We can invoke it whenever we feel called to bring us into higher vibrations.
There’s a technique I learned from Elizabeth Clare Prophet and use whenever I feel energetically off, which is visualizing a violet flame of fire around me and saying I AM the violet flame of fire. I AM the purity God desires and repeat that 3, 6, or 9 times. I also say it for each chakra to balance my chakras every morning and replace “I AM” with the chakra’s name to help transmute any negative energies or blockages. For example: My root chakra is a violet flame of fire, my root chakra is the purity God desires. Repeat 3, 6, or 9 times and continue to the sacral chakra, solar plexus, heart, and so on.
For Twin Flames, simply visualize you and your twin flame surrounded by the violet flame of fire and call on St. Germain to assist in transmuting all negative energies and blockages between you two so that you can come into union.
Archangel Gabriel — He’s known as the messenger and aids with dreams and communication blocks. He was the angel that came to Mother Mary, Jesus’s mother, to let her know she would be carrying the son of God as a virgin. Archangel Gabriel is known to help people with communication and dreams, so if you’re having troubles communicating with your Twin Flame or anyone around you and want more confidence when you speak, visualize blue light around your throat chakra and call on Archangel Gabriel to clear any communication blocks. You may also call on him to assist you with messages in dreams.
Archangel Raphael — Archangel Raphael is known as the angel of healing. He’s also Twin Flames with Mother Mary. You may see him as a green flash, orb, or light appear. You can call on him to assist with illnesses and the heart chakra and visualize green light in the heart or areas you need healing.
Jesus Christ / Yeshua / Sananda / Emmanuel — Jesus Christ as he is most commonly known, is also an ascended master, but known as the Son of God to Christians and Catholics. I was raised Catholic so I often pray to Jesus for guiding me in life and I’ve noticed I automatically call on him whenever I’m fighting a dark entity in a dream as many people have. He is a strong ascended master to ward off evil spirits when we are being spiritually attacked.
Jesus’s Twin Flame is Mary Magdalene, whom I call upon a lot with feminine energy healing especially when doing work with the sacral chakra. She is a Divine Feminine and many Divine Feminines look up to her as she had many profound teachings, but sadly she’s barely recognized in the Bible. I highly recommend doing research on her and looking at her story because unfortunately, the church has portrayed her to be something she wasn’t.
Quan Yin — She’s another Goddess I call upon for Divine Feminine energy healing as she’s the Divine Feminine within the Buddhist religion. She holds a powerful combination of warrior and feminine energies. She’s known for being compassionate, highly gifted, dissolving conflict, and balancing karma by practicing forgiveness and compassion for others. Her twin flame is Lao-Tsu.
Lord Shiva & Goddess Shakti / Parvati — These two are widely known in the Hindu religion for being Twin Flames / Divine counterparts and her having to work hard to prove to him she was worthy of being with him. There’s even a big holiday called Maha Shivaratri, that commemorates their marriage, which falls between February & March and it’s so beautiful that they make a big festival out of their love. It’s about purifying the mind, body, and spirit as it is believed Lord Shiva fought darkness to shed his ego and chose to remain in a place of love and wed his true love. If that’s not Twin Flame love, I don’t know what is. I like to call on them to assist us into union and to balance the masculine and feminine energies.
Archangel Chamuel — He’s the archangel of Love and his Twin Flame is Lady Charity / Serafina. It is advised to call on them in times of trouble in relationships and love. I like to visualize myself or my heart surrounded with pink light as well as my Twin Flame’s. You can ask them for assistance to be more compassionate, have more self love, and forgiveness if you’re having a hard time forgiving someone. I always notice a difference as soon as I call on them.
I hope this article has helped you in any way and gives you comfort in this crazy, beautiful journey. Feel free to check out my other articles on my profile. God bless.
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